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writes:help my best mate has this boyfriend and they don't seem to be in a close relationship. The trouble is me and him always flirt and send dirty messages to each other. She blames me about it when half of it is his fault. what should i do??????
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 March 2008): I am in this same situation right now with my boyfriend and best friend flirting and talking. I say that if she is your best friend you need to tell her whats up. and you shouldnt like ur bestfriends boyfriend. Thats not a good thing to steel him from her. she could never trust u again. be mature quit the flirting crap.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 March 2008): I guess you ought to stop flirting. Be the mature one - and the good friend. Think about how much you are hurting her - I'm not saying its your fault, but because you are texting back it will hurt her feelings.
Friendships are important and very special. Don't ruin this one.
Goodluck in the future and everything. x x x
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reader, younghelper  +, writes (10 March 2008):
 I wouldn't be that harsh, but i completely agree. It is your fault he texts you, plus YOU actually text back, egging him on. You should stop your flirting unless you want to risk losing a friend.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 March 2008): be a friend and cut off all contact to her bf, your not a good friend and she is going to have to learn how he is by her self and if its between you and him youll lose your friend so butt out and find your own man let him lirt and talk dirty to some one eles
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 March 2008): Be a better friend and stop flirting. She is absolutely correct thinking you are to blame. Maybe you would not have a proble if she does this to your B/F next time.
You are being quite bitchy and disloyal if you have done this and should think about what type of friend you really are. It is 100% your fault your texting him. It is 100% his fault he is texting you. Neither of you are being worthy of friendships or relationships, but I guess we learn this as we get older. Just remember, what you do to others you cannot change. So if you choose to be this type of girl and girlfriend, then this is what others will label you by.
When someone does this to you, you will know how she feels and how selfcentred the other person is with your friendship.
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