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writes:Why is it that we are having more sex than ever and we are supposed to have split up?
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reader, tux  +, writes (13 March 2008):
 My outlook on this phenomenon is pretty simply. You have more sex after you are split up because...You are not worrying as much about the relationship aspects. It's a risk-free, no-strings relationship. While in the relationship, you'd be worrying about, am I pleasing them? Am I looking my best? AM I gonna lose them, and so on. But afterwards, you have all this mutual sexual attraction that is dying to be released, and so then you release it by having sex together without the worry of the relationship. That is my take on it atleast.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 March 2008): it's just what happens. If you want it to stop i suggest you get way from your ex partner. stop seeing him (or her) at all. maybe after you've had sometime to think you can be casually together and not end up in bed.
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reader, hello1 +, writes (10 March 2008):
 I read it's something to do with the fact it may be the last time you have sex so you give it all you got! Thats what I think anyway
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reader, O Connor  +, writes (10 March 2008):
 this can happen with alot of couples who have 'broken up'. it may have something to do with the fact that you both know you are not 'emotionally' attached to eachother anymore and are just both focusing on the passion that still exists between you. i know this sounds awful, but its probably the thought that the 2 of you can just have raw sex with no strings attached that may be the attraction for you both. this may all sound fine at the moment - but you are supposed to be broken up and having sex is going to make it harder for the both of you to get closure and move on. i think that the 2 of you need to establish wat it is you both want from eachother. if its just sex, and if you are fine with that - then fair enough, but you need to be prepared that sooner or later emotions are going to run wild and you need to know if you are going to be able to handle that. hope this helps hun, email me if you want hun xxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 March 2008): I know what mean Sister, I have a lot of sex with my ex wife too, and its cool, because we don't have to deal with the strings and part ways after we get the deed done. I still date and see other women, but during a dry spell, for her and for me its good to know you have someone you can rely on for sex without the bullshit. We still care for each other, but its just as friends now, so the sex is just to relieve tension. If either one of us find someone to get serious with it will be over, but its good for now. As long as you keep the communication going, why not have a little sex once in a while.
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