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anonymous
writes:me and my boyfriend had sex a couple of times with a condom and once without it but it wasnt proper he stuck his penis in like half way twice, lately i have been feeling sick and we both think i might be pregnant. how am i supposed to tell my mother if i am?
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (10 March 2008):
 Best to confirm if you are really pregnant first before you want to deal that issue with your mum.
Get a pregnancy test on your 5th or 6th week.
If confirmed positive, just let your mom knows.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 March 2008): I went thru the same thing at your age & telling my mum was the hardest thing ever.
Mums have a level of love that you can't even begin to imagine. She might be sad, angry, disappointed ... but in the end, she'll be your strongest support - whatever you decide to do.
But definitely do the pregnancy test first - no point worrying for (possibly) nothing.
* For future reference, keep in mind that in a 28 day cycle, you can get pregnant if you have sex up to 5 days before you ovulate (sperm can survive this long), and generally a day or so after ovulation. So that's 1 week that you're in the danger zone. If you ever have a contraception issue again, get to a pharmacist asap who can talk to you about emergency contraception (aka "the morning after pill"). You don't need a prescription in Australia - you can get it direct from the pharmacy.*
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 March 2008): Hi Hunny
First you need to get a pregnacy test love, How long have you thought this? Get the pregnacy test done and visit your doctor to get checked, Then hunny if you are pregnant you are just going to have to sit down with your mum and explain just what you have explained here...If it turns out you are not pregnant then other contraception would be a good idea as well as condoms ill send you a link hunny
http://womenshealth.about.com/cs/birthcontro1/a/bthcontrlmethod.htm
Good luck sweetheart if you need a chat please feel free to message me TAKE CARE WITH LOVE MANDY XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
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reader, baybee-x-sparkii  +, writes (10 March 2008):
 okay first get a pregnancy test and take it from there...
if you are pregnant then you need to decide whether to keep the baby, if this is the case it would be best if you sat your mum down explained that you understand if she is ashamed upset etc but you need to tell her. explain what happened and give her time to come to terms with it. if you are pregnant but don't want the baby you need someone to help you with support
good luck
if you need me email me
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 March 2008): if you think you are pregnant go to your GP and find out its all you can do. would you rather tell your mother and find out you are not? if it comes down to the point where you are pregnant sit you mother down and say. she will be shocked at first it will need time to sink in. Good Luck
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