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writes:I recently met somebody (three months ago) and started becoming attracted to her about a month ago. I found out that she just got out of a relationship (very short) but she's told me that they put closure to it but it's still hard to let go, because they were good friends since high school. She knows that I like her but told me that it was going to be hard for me because of her attachment to this person. What do I do?
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reader, O Connor  +, writes (10 March 2008):
 i think that you should respect the fact that she stlll has feelings for her ex, and that she was honest with you about how hard it would be for her to move on right now. i think that you should give her some time to get over this guy. after all it would be unfair to you if she did get involved with you while she still has feelings for her ex, how would it make you feel knowing that you are seeing someone who has feelings for someone else?! just give her time, stay friends with her and it will happen when you are both ready.
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