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I have fallen for this guy HARD!!!! but the thing is he knows and doesn't feel the same, I really want to get over him but don't know how...

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Question - (10 March 2008) 3 Answers - (Newest, 11 March 2008)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I have fallen for this guy HARD!!!! but the thing is he knows and doesn't feel the same, I really want to get over him but don't know how, can anyone help please? thanks.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (11 March 2008):

I was in the exact same situation this year. I'm just now getting over it even though it causes me pain. If you want to get over him, try to avoid him and don't talk to him unless necessary. Don't be rude, but don't flirt with him either.

Also, try new activities or hang out with friends more often.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (10 March 2008):

this is a trick my friend taught me:

list your top 25 foods alphabetically

list your top 20 pizza toppings alphabetically

after you have done this you will notice when you did this you will have forgotten about the guy/girl. So just do things that have nothing to do with them, im not saying spend all day listing your friends alphabetically, maybe go somewhere you havent been before and make it have interesting. But dont lose your friendship with ths gy friendships are more important than anything.

Try this and i hope it works for you, good luck, sorry if it doesn't :S

good luck :)

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A reader, anonymous, writes (10 March 2008):

It's difficult to try and get over someone, especially if u feel so strongly. And to tell u the truth, sometimes u just don't.

But there r some things that u can do to try and get over him... You could try concentrating and focusing on everything else except him, and focus on other problems u may have and u may soon forget about him.

Also at your age, you can believe that you've fallen for someone and after a few weeks you can be thinking about someone else.

I hope that I've been of some help.. Good luck!

Keep us updated!

xx Hope xx

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