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*xjenaxx
writes:I'm 21 years old and have a three month old son. I have just recently moved in with my partner who has started hitting me. He says it's my fault for pushing him too far which I do do that but I just can't take it anymore. The other night I had my son in my arms and he hit me! I want to leave but I have nowhere to go and I do love him. Can anybody help ?
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reader, anon_e_mouse +, writes (12 March 2008):
 It's is ceratinly NOT YOUR FAULT. It's HIS fault. Get out and go stay with family/friends.
You're setting yourself for a WHOLE LIFETIME of ABUSE if you stay. Think of YOURSELF and YOUR CHILD.
ANY child growing up in that environment will grow up to have serious issues or think that behaviour is acceptable.
DO IT NOT ONLY FOR YOURSELF BUT YOUR BABY TOO and report your man to the police once you and your child are safe.
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reader, 17Irish17  +, writes (10 March 2008):
MOVE OUT NOW...RIGHT NOW!
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 March 2008): Get out of there FAST!!!! He has hit you with your son in your arms, what's to stop him from hurting him next. There are lots of organisations out there to help woman like you, what about friends or family?If you won't leave him for your own sake, do it for your son, no one deserves to be treated or be brought up like this.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 March 2008): You need to find a way to leave Safely. I can speak from personal experiance it only gets worse. You should contact a Domestic Violence Shelter to get help but dont let him know what you are planning because he will most likely be angry and I dont want you or you baby to get hurt.You must have family or a close trusted friend who can help. If not look for an organizations that can or call your local police station and ask if they can give you a number of an orinazation BUT DONT USE YOUR PHONE LINE THAT CAN BE TRACED BY HIM. ASk a friend to call or use a payphone DONT GET CAUGHT. make the call when he is at work or you know for curtain he is not going to be home for a couple of hours. I hope you get help God Bless You and your baby be safe. Remember Abusers always blame the abused. Never go back to him after you leave he wolt change no matter what he says. Think about your baby now.
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reader, Dawnie +, writes (10 March 2008):
 Get out now, he is a violent thug. It's bad enough that he has hit you but to do this when you are holding your child is beyond belief. There are organisations out there that can help you and you need to this NOW. Do you have any family at all that can help? Please don't stay with this man as it will get worse, and next time he may hit your child.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 March 2008): RUN LIKE HELL!!!! He hit you and you had your child in your arms, what next? Do you hang around until you are murdered? No way. You should of reported him to the police that minute. Have you not got a relative who you can go and stay with? You need to get away and as fast as possible. Please for my sake, get help. I put up with that shite for over 20 years, NEVER EVER AGAIN. I AM SHOUTING AT THE COMPUTER AS I TYPE THIS. PLEASE DO THIS FOR ME.
TAKE CARE - GET TO THE POLICE - GET OUT - KEEP IN TOUCH - KEEP STRONG - BIG HUGS.XXXXXXXXXXXXXX
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