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writes:Just a question. Planning on sleeping with a guy this weekend and am wondering if theres anything I can do ot my body to make it extra nice? Should I shave my pubic area? Paint my toenails? Wear perfume? Scented body mosturiser? Reply to this Question
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reader, tux  +, writes (13 March 2008):
 Personally, I wish less girls would completely shave down there.. a neat trim will work, but I would love to see some hair but unfornately that is how society is right now. But i will say just be yourself.. dress sexy.. show up clean and then relax and have fun. :)
~Tux
p.s. I just wonder where in the question it said it was her first time period. :) But well I will say it is a good assumption based on the question. If it is your first time, make sure he proceeds with caution.. and remember longer for you is not necessarily good at first.. Longer further on along, yes.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 March 2008): If you get your nails manicured, MAKE SURE THEY'RE NOT PROPER LONG AND SCRATCHY! He wants to come away feeling amazing, not like he's just had sex with a werewolf.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 March 2008): Mmmm, nice.Toe-nails. Depends a bit on the guy, but mostly that is a female thing. I at least prefer the natural look (Female: The one that takes 2 hours to put on? Me: Yeah)Clean, well maintained is FAR more important then some nail polish. That goes for everything. It is not so much the scent and color you think of applying, but the fact that in doing so you are taking care of your body.Shaving? Bad idea if you are not used to it, but sadly a lot of men, especially the younger ones, seem to have a phobia about hair. Another poster already explained why shaving is a bad idea, but there is this to add, do you really want to risk a rash this close to your magic weekend? If the guy isn't an idiot, just trim it down so he doesn't need a machette to cut his way through and that will be fine.Arm pits and legs? NO!Scents, light, subtle, refined. Perfumes is again most a woman thing, keep it subtle and natural (Female: You mean that perfume that costs 100 dollars an ounce Man: No, that natural smell you have Female: That's the one)But hell, that is what I prefer. Your guy may be very different. If he has half a brain, he will realize he is very lucky.
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reader, EssentiallyMe +, writes (11 March 2008):
 Listen, the thing that will make it the best is that you FEEL your best! So if all those things are going to make you feel beautiful and most importantly confident, then do it all!!! When someone is confident, they radiate that. And they radiate beauty because confidence is absolutely beautiful. Plus, if you feel good about yourself and have that confidence, you won't waste any time worrying about your legs not being shaved or your skin not being smooth enough because all of that will already be taken care of and you both can just ENJOY the event! You obviously already got the guy so, go for it. Do whatever it takes for YOU to feel good!!! That's the best advice I can give! ;)
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reader, lilmisse2424 +, writes (11 March 2008):
 shave or go for a brazilian wax for your vaginal hair, but i recommend notdoing the brazilian wax if you are sensitive to wax. also, definitely, shave the legs and paint the toenails. smelling good is a plus and definitely watch your breath. good luck
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reader, Paladin +, writes (11 March 2008):
 Just by your asking I suspect you will do everything right, it appears you already know how to pretty up. I suggest you go easy on the purfume and very easy on the body lotions. As far as shaving, thats a personal choice. I like it that way but everyone is different. There is no right or wrong there. Since this will be your first time I hope you partner will go very slow and the foreplay will last a long time. The longer it lasts the better you will feel and it also gives you a chance to change your mind. Remember, even though you made these plans you always have the right to change your mind.
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reader, Country Woman +, writes (10 March 2008):
 Sweetheart clean and fresh always works and smelling nice with a lovely shampoo in your hair and maybe some body mosituriser on your legs as they are the areas that can be stubbly if you shave them and underarms.
NEVER, NEVER shave your pubic hair unless you want the agony of when the hair grows back as once it's shaved you either have to keep it shaved or let it grow back and trust me after my pubic hair was shaved at 15 for an operation (needless to say that don't shave you now), it was hell when it grew back and not as soft so beware is my advice.
Nicely manicured fingernails or toenails are always something great but it should also be for you to make you feel special.
Only sleep with this guy if you want to and not if you feel pressurised into sleeping with him OK.
Is this your first time and does the guy know it is?
Just try and relax and wear clothes that you feel attractive in OK.
Take care and always here OK.
BFN
Country Woman
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reader, Passthrough +, writes (10 March 2008):
 From my 23y/o perspective, I mostly agree with DoubleM, clean and short pubic area, not bushy... Shaved is nice but not always fun...
Go with red nails... Red is just one of those colors :-D
Scents- Something light. I think most guys dont like heavy smells, anywhere.
Make sure your pits are shaved. Most guys are very turned off by 'macho' pit hair :-P
'Bout all I can recommend. Lucky guy, by the way :-D
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reader, Robin Goode +, writes (10 March 2008):
trim it. shave legs. paint toe nails. watch your breath -- tooth brush in the purse! Good luck! Have fun!
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reader, DoubleM +, writes (10 March 2008):
 Lucky guy I'll bet. Well, from an old man's point of view, mainly just be fresh and clean and perfumed just a bit - not too much. Just do all the things girls do to be pretty. As for pubic hair, maybe I'm older, but I think a trimmed, not bushy, area is nice. But not shaved bald. And do NOT douche, it's bad for your "environment." I'm sure it will be "extra nice" no matter what, and just hope the guy means a lot to you.
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