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30-35,
*ute angel
writes:I really like him but I don't know if he would reciprocate the same feelings as I do and I am really hot although I may sound like I am a boasting bitch but that's the truth. I AM really hot and all the guys in my college die to talk 2 him but I have rejected so many just to be with my crush.. I don't talk to him neither did we ever smile at each other but still I am crazy about him.. I want to talk to him everyday, I decide I will talk to him but then I don't end up doing it and he doesn't seem like a social person either.. he's in his own world studying lol.. I got to know that he personally went and spoke to one my guy best friends and I wondered why did he talk to him cuz he doesn't even talk to the people in his own class. I thought to myself did he speak to my guy best friend cuz he saw me with him many times cuz he did.. and he even stared.. but I don't want to assume anything... so you guys tell me why should he speak to him when he doesn't even know him? All this is killing me. I love him a lot and I want to have a relationship with him.
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reader, angel2311  +, writes (10 March 2008):
 Well first thing u need to do is ask your buddy if he already had spoke to your crush. ( some dudes even your friend can be a cockblock just because they might like u for themselves so always keep that in mind ) if he hasn't take things into your own hands and be strong 'cuz your goin to need a strong stomach for this. First find out his likes and dislikes and yea.... this might take awhile for a day to a week tops if your good. Then use your info to your advantage ( for example if he's into hip hop) get to know his fav artist so u can has something to talk about. There's nothing more uncomfortable then having nothing to say to someone. Then flirt abit round him and see how he takes it. If you share a class with him or share to same teacher this would be easier for you to aproach him just simply by bring up how u seen him in ur class. Let things flow naturally after afew questions and don't be too sudden or forward with askin him out. ( yea that's right you ask him out 'cuz the sun don't always shine on us females nomore how hot we are) since you say that he's into his studies make sure you don't end up sounding like a lil girl when u speak to him, HAVE A BRAIN and show him that your better than just your looks as well. Let me know how things turn out
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 March 2008): How on earth are you claiming to be in love with some guy you've never even spoken to before? Get a grip. Talk to him if you want to, don't if you don't. Surely if you were that 'hot' he would have initiated something by now.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 March 2008): And how old are you? Do me a favour and reread your question!You don't sound mature enough for any relationship. Stand back take some(plenty) of deep breaths and get a grip girl.I suggest you play it cool and subtle, he might notice you.
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reader, xXForgottenTearsXx +, writes (10 March 2008):
Ooh...maybe he was asking about you? Just get up the courage to ask him! Maybe you could get a friend to get his email or cell phone number so you could tell him that way.
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