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writes:I met a guy after splitting with a long term ex we had fun but I didn't want a relationship. Anyway we stayed friends time went on and I was ready for a relationship, trouble was he had met someone by this time. We stayed friends and then began sleeping with each other he still has this girlfriend which he says is ending. He rang me when he was drunk once to tell me if I admitted how I felt things might happen, anyway I didn't.A few months later when drunk I told him I loved him, was crazy about him he said he needs time to think and why do I never tell him this when I'm sober, I think he is annoyed with me now HELP
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (10 March 2008):
 You have planted the seed of love in his heart.
Will it germinate or not?
It will be up to you to water that seed if you want it to grow.
The seed will need some time to grow.
If it is a good soil , it will..
God Bless you!
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 March 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks so much for the help i actually spoke to him this morning on the phone he asked how i was said i was fine and i remember whaT i said but im not sorry for saying it he said it was fine it was how i felt and that he wont just split with his girlfriend for me cause he is unsure what he actually wants we had a laugh and stuff so we mates at least maybe just move on hey
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reader, angel2311  +, writes (10 March 2008):
 Well one of the hardest things to figure out is if what u said when u were drunk impacted how he feels. In reality guys aren't exactly to fond of "feelings" when in comes to someone they're hooking-up with even if ya' are friend. Don't try to knock him on the head with tryin to explain what was up with you that nite and instead show him that your better for him without having to say it. Like you kno what he likes in a girl so use that as ur ammo and keep yourself exclusive. Cuz' in his head he might of already labelled you as "friend w/ benifits" and that's label to beat. DON'T use jeliousy by bring someone else in the picture unless you kno it will work for u 'cuz it can back fire on you in the worst way. Just keep in mind that your probly better for him if you guys have things in common and use that as well. If he's worth it he'll pick up quickly on how great u are and want you even more. Make memories as must but don't make it obvious of course and just keep in mind that at this point your his friend and nothing makes a friend look better and stand out then how much fun ur having with him. Just at time be flirtly and keep me upgraded on how ur progress is going, cool!!!
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reader, Laura1318 +, writes (10 March 2008):
A case of wrong timing but it is better late than never.
He will come around...
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reader, Paladin +, writes (10 March 2008):
 Think about it you slept with him while he was still seeing another. The worst part is that you kept doing it even though he didn't commit. You made it easy for him to have his cake and eat it. Besides that I think you aren't sharing all your feelings with him because you resent the fact that he hasn't broken up with his girlfriend. This guy has no reason to be annoyed with you. You should be the one upset. It looks like he is using you to help in his decision and I doubt that if you crawled to him he would change. Do yourself a favor and find someone who will respect you and not play with your feelings and emotions. You deserve better.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 March 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks for your help think your right
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