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Love Mess...

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Question - (10 March 2008) 1 Answers - (Newest, 13 March 2008)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

This time last year I just split up with my boyfriend and was feeling vulnerable, I invited my friend over, who has a girlfriend and I told him how I was feeling etc and one thing lead to another and we had sex, it was perfect. He ended up telling his girlfriend and they stayed together, me and him carried on to have casual sex and a few times he would tell me he loves me and he wanted to be with me but other times he would only want me around for fun.

I was going through a stage in my life when nothing was going right so I let him walk all over me. He split up with his girlfriend and told me he wanted me then a week later he got engaged to a complelty new girl. I was confused. I left it a year on and a few realtionships later for me, he is back. He is still with his fiance who lives 183 miles away. We had sex in his car one day and ever since then he has left me blank in the dark, and as well I had to take the morning after pill, I'm so confused he is playing me for a fool but I always come back to him please help!

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A male reader, tux United States +, writes (13 March 2008):

tux agony auntIf you are okay with just having sex with him, then continue on with what you are doing. If you are wanting for a relationship with this guy, I will say STOP! He left a girl for you, then left you for another girl and is now coming back? I really do not believe this guy is wanting to settle down with any girl, atleast right now. If you continue on with any relationship with him, you will end up getting hurt more. If you just want to see him for sex, go ahead because my guess is that is all he is seeing you for and when he gets tired of you, he'll just move on again to some other girl.

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