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writes:Hi, I'm a 14 year old boy I have never been in a proper relationship with a girl and not too sure how to attract girls? I met this girl and really like her. What signs would she show if she likes me?? If I was to go out on a date with her where should I take her? Should we go alone or with some friends? How should I ask her out on a date? Thanks for taking the time to read this, please help Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 March 2008): Hmm I'm sure I just answered a question like this yesterday..
When a girl likes you, you'll generally catch her looking at you a bit more, but then she quickly looks away. Maybe she'll just do something unusually nice to you, innitiate a conversation, or 'accidentally' bump into you in the corridor. However, everyone expresses these feelings differently, it depends what kind of girl you go for. If she's a bit rough, she might pick on you more than other people! Love is a strange thing.. Your best bet would probably be to the cinema, and ask her to bring a friend and you can bring a friend too. This way, its not too serious all of a sudden, and you always have someone to talk to if things go awkward or bad. You could go bowling too, or just shopping if you want something more casual. To ask her out.. Get her alone if you can, but not isolated. Just somewhere where people cant barge in on you. Say something like, ''I was just wondering if you fancied coming to the cinema some time. If you want, bring a friend and I will, and we could just go have a laugh.'' Something casual, but determined :] good luck.
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reader, jonay111  +, writes (10 March 2008):
Hi, the signs to see if this girl likes you is she shows affection towards you, She talks to you, conversation is the main thing. Find out what you both like, And if you figure that out, then choose that place. I think you 2 should go some where fun. A place where both of you will have fun, and a place ya'll would go again. It doesn't have to be expensive, only memories.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 March 2008): Can I just say that at 14 you should have no worries about never being in a proper relationship before.
About the attracting girls bit: just be yourself. Flirt a little, make her laugh and just talk to her and get to know her.
There are tonnes of signs a girl would show if she liked you: smiling is a big thing, if she looks really pleased to see you, just spending time with you, eye contact, getting all giggly around you... and so on...
As for the date you could go to the cinema (always good for a first date coz there's not much opportunity to talk until the end when you can discuss the film if the conversation dies), or you could go out to eat or ice skating or just going for a walk. If you're nervous about it you could even just make it a casual date where there is no plan if that makes you happier.
You could go by yourself but there may be silences, or you could go with friends but it may get a bit awkward and you may feel like you should be spreading your time more equally. Or there is also the idea of double dating if you have a friend who would do that with you. Its entirely up to you.
You could ask her by just coming out with it - Would you like to ... with me? Or you could just say to her I really like you, would you like to go out sometime?
Though, one piece of advice, I don't recommend you get your friends to ask her out for you. You could perhaps get them to tell her you like her and then you ask her out but never get them to do the whole job for you coz that would make things possibly harder for her and possibly less likely to say yes as she may feel that she is the butt of a joke.
I really hope this helps.
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