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anonymous
writes:Me and my ex broke up just a month ago, after having a 8 month relationship. We were happily living together, until I became depressed over the January period. My ex struggled with this, he felt I was a different person, and not the one he fell in love with. Despite me talking to him about it, he would refuse to talk to me. Eventually, he chose out of the blue to break up with me. Now it's a month later, and he admitted he does regret it. But I know he considers too much has happened, for us to get back together, as he has had a blazing row with my family. I also know that he made lies about me to his friends and family. He has made it clear he does want to be friends with me. But recently this past week, he has been sending vulgar text messages suggesting at sex. Before that, he was sending me messages on how he misses me and how lonely he is without me. Plus he made it clear he felt i was moving too quickly into a new relationship with someone else. I still love him so much, and i worry that i will allow my ex to take advantage of that. I'm confused as to what he wants, is it just sex and loneliness or does he want me back?
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 March 2008): Simply, sex and loneliness.
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