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male
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:Hi, Theres this girl that I've kina just met and I really like her. We've been textin each other loads and my mate sent her a text from my phone asking her out (not to my knowledge) and she said she doesn't feel she knows me well enough yet.Anyway shes going on holiday for a week and I suggested that we go to the cinema when she gets back (to get to know each other better). Was this a good idea? Or could you think of a better ideas?Sorry to ramble but my question is (don't worry not if I should pay for her) but like how should I act?If we are just goin as friends, like we aren't out yet then what should I do? Try and put my arm around her? Should I try and hold her hand like when welre walking out and stuff? What movie should I take her to see?If it goes well what could I say to her that might make us go out? Don't really want to blatantly ask when she thinks I already have oncd!Thanks a lot for any help in advance!
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 July 2008): let her choose the film don't put your arm around her or try to hold her hand i am 12 and if one of my friends thats a boy did that to me i would get totally put off especially if i thought hed recently just asked me out just act friendly and flirt a bit if she likes you she'll flirt back but be careful some girls just flirt naturally so make sure you don't jump to conclusions
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reader, juturna  +, writes (4 July 2008):
I'd love to help with this one ^.^okay well when you go, don't put your arm around her or anything like that the whole night, but still be flirty. lock eyes, lean towards her to tell her something, you know. that kinda stuff. but dont be too obvious, because if you aren't she'll be wondering why and stuff. she'll be thinking about you all night if you give her something to think about! so dont make a move until the 2nd date.
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