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writes:well things between me and a guy friend of mine went totally out of hand and our friendship was ruined..he tried talkin to me,calling me but i ignored him and then he stopped calling me thinking that i dont want to be with him anymore and decided to give me my space but recently when he spoke to my best friend he told her how much he missed me and blah blah,my friend told him i missed him too and that i wanted to talk to him many a times but just couldnt do it and it is true but i was thinking should this guy friend of mine know all these details??/do u think it was right of my friend to tell him how much i miss him too??thanks//
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reader, talker  +, writes (5 July 2008):
 I don't see how the friendship was ruined if he tried to talk to you about it. What it sounds like to me is that you're hurt and your pride is getting in the way. I don't know if I'm right.But either way...you should tell your friend that it bothered you that she told him you missed him and then let it go. She seems to have been trying to help and if she's your close friend, then her intentions (we can assume) were in the right place. Talk to him. Be honest...whether it's that you don't want to be with him or that you need more time to get over it. Communicate.
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reader, ChiRaven +, writes (4 July 2008):
 It should have been you telling him, not her. It's almost always better, when both of you are free and not involved with other people, for you to be honest and up-front with your feelings. That way you both know where you stand.
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (4 July 2008):
Well if she was just telling him the truth then what is the harm?
Your main problem is that you are not acting straight to him or to yourself. Figure out if you like him or not and let him know one way or the other.
At the moment this situation is not fair on anyone including you.
Good Luck!! xx
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