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*ooky.
writes: in the beginning of my freshman year i had a BIG CRUSH on this guys name Alfredo. (Alfredo was a sophmore, we didnt had any classes 2gether including lunch) By February of the 2nd semester we finally started 2 talk we exchange numbers. we were friends bt he already kne that i liked him. All of my friends nd the ppl that kne us they were always asking us if we were going out, 1 of my friends said that everytime we were 2gether that both of us couldnt stop smiling nd there was a sparkle in our eyes. Well cuz we had different classes we stoped talking 4 bout a month. 1 of my friends named Travis asked me out. I didnt kno if i made the right decision by going out w/ travis. Everytime Alfredo saw us he looked sad/mad, the thing is that i still had a crush on him, n he didnt kne that. 3 weeks later me and Travis broke up, when i told Alfredo he seem happy, and i saw the biggest smile on his face. idk if i should talk 2 him like we used 2, i dont even kno if i still have a shot w/ him? wat can i do???
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 July 2008): Just talk to him and be friends. Let him know that you missed his friendship and company in the month that you didn't get to meet up and say that if anything like that happens again (as in time apart) then you'd like to think you guys had a way of keeping in touch - like texting, msn or something. Then just relax, enjoy the friendship and see how it develops from there.
Good luck!
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