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writes:Hi all,sorry but this is abit of a long winded story but need advice. basically ive known this girl most of my life and have always thought there was something special about her.Neway about 10 months ago I managed to get hold of her no. and got in contact with her.during the whole time we chatted and she was evrything i thought her to be.from the begining she told me that we could neva b anything more than friends and that she neva had a relationship b4 but it didn bother me cus i jus wanted to be part of her life. anyway we recently met for the 1st tym and we both enjoyd each otha's company and hours flew past lyk seconds so we met again soon after and again we both clicked. now a couple of days ago she told me that she cudnt chat 2 me nemore and said that she wishes me luck in finding the perfect partner and its over now. i then told her how strongly i felt for her and cared for her and she insistd that she told me nothing would eva happen between us. since we stopped chattin i cnt stop thinkin about her.did she like me but was scared of comitment?was i being optimistic in thinking a relationship could develop?why cant i stop thinking about her?did she ever feel the same way?does any1 have any advice as I am completly lost???? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 July 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionyeah maybe your all right and I should be moving on. But its just that in my mind she was perfect and at the moment it looks it hard for any other girl to ever come close to her.
we used to text each other almost everyday and when she finally said we'd meet I just thought that it was starting to go somewhere but maybe she was just curious in meeting me in person. i don't think she found me unattractive cus she knew exactly what I looked like and through pictures complimented me in all types of ways.
but looking back at it all now maybe she just saw me as a friend and never had them type of feelings for me but now its over we will never know. i've lost all desire in getting in contact with her again now that I know nothing could ever happen between us. But i always want her to remain happy.
thanks for all the advice and hopefully it will help give me some closure.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 July 2008): She probably just enjoyed your opinions and your thoughts and views about things. She may have been unattracted to you physically or may have already been in a relationship with someone and forwarned you that you could only be friends so that you wouldn't develop false hope and think you could be a couple. I just think she liked your comapny but when she felt that you were catching the wrong type of feelings for her, she ended the discussions and time together to save you any further heartache. You are probably constatntly thinking about her because you were falling in love with her and it hurts to know that she doesn't feel the same way. I imagine that you have unanswered questions about it. Hopefully, this helped.
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