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36-40,
*ubblygirl
writes:I am good friends with this guy. He had feelings for me before but I think they've faded but we still talk lots. Anyways, he always touches (hugs, pats) other people, mostly girls, but he wont do that with me! Its confusing why he still talks to me but wont hug me!Why is he doing this? What is up? Reply to this Question
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reader, Fabulous Fairy  +, writes (4 July 2008):
 Hey there,I dont really know how to tell you this but the chances are his feelings for you haven't faded that much at all. Touching a friend or a family member while you are chatting is normal - so normal in fact that people dont even realize they are doing it. But as soon as you start to have feelings for someone you notice everything and become alot more conscious of physical contact with them. Your friend is obviously trying to get past his feelings for you but because they are still there he feels that if he touches or hugs you, you might think that he stil;l has feelings for you.There is no real way to solve this problem other than to give it time.....that is if you want to still be just friends with him??????Hope it all works out bubblygirl.
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