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writes:Hi there,Well last night i had this terrible dream, about my boyfriend going back to poland to see his ex-gf. And i followed him. And we met up and his ex-gf was pissed that i came, and so on. But we ended up staying at her house. I had my own room there but i wasnt sure where he was staying. When we got back to my house in the states, i asked him if he stayed in her room and if he slept with her. Instead of answering me he walked out the front door. I woke up crying. Im not sure what this dream could mean. I know its just a dream, but i havent had a dream this vivid before. It was so real. Could anyone tell me what this dream could mean? btw, i have been having alot of thoughts lately about breaking up with him. but when i think about it i just cant seem to do it. and i end up crying. Does that mean i dont want to lose him? p.s. there were other things in the dream, but i lost memory of them.
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (5 July 2008):
 It means you're afraid something might happen between the two.
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reader, talker +, writes (5 July 2008):
 Some people say that dreams are the last thoughts before we fall asleep. It depends on whether or not YOU think it means anything. If you've been thinking about breaking up with him lately, then you have to wonder why it is that you want to break up with him. The dream might mean that if you break up with him, you're either (a) wanting to have a reason to break up with him or (b) afraid that if you do break up with him, that he will find someone else. Does that mean you shouldn't break up with him? That depends. As a person, I wouldn't like the idea of someone I was intimate with being with someone else. Even if I let them go, the jealousy is always there. But you have to think about the real things...does he make me happy, am i making him happy, are these things we can work through, is it worth it to work through whatever problems you feel are strong enough to make you want to break up with him. Whether or not you had a vivid dream about cheese or him seeing his ex-girlfriend isn't as important as that last sentence that you wrote.I hope that helps. :)
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (4 July 2008):
It probably means you a bit scared of being rejected. It could also mean that you ate too much cheese before bed time. Or that you watched a TV show with a cheating story line and your brain didn't like the idea of it.
Tell our boyfriend about it and get him you give you a few hugs and kisses. That's usually enough to scare away bad dreams.
Dreams can tell you what is in your subconscious, but a lot of them time it doesn't really mean anything.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 July 2008): Dreams are apprantley what you want to happen, or at the same time your worst fears.If you've been thinking a lot about breaking up with him then this could be an obvious reason. Dreams are things particularly on your mind - they evolve important people in your lives, otherwise people would have dreams about strangers.It possibly means, me not being much of a dream professional, that you need a reason to break up with him. However I do think that you yourself could be right, because it shows that you don't want to lose him but at the same time you will?!That doesn't make much sense, but I think you should talk over your issues with your boyfriend. Obviously I can't assume what other stuff was in the dream, but somethings clinging onto your mind and you need to release it.
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