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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:help! Im so inexperienced in bed. Ive had a few sexual partners but they've always taken the lead. Basically i dont have a clue what to do with a penis and feel so stupid. Ive never given a blow job and wouldnt even know where to start. Im even useless with handjobs and when a man ushers my hand down there during sex i feel stupid and unsure of what he wants. Or what to do when hes having trouble staying hard after a long session. My current fairly new boyfriend is a little older and more experienced than me. Id ask him to help me out but he's got the impression that im so confident and experienced. He satisfies me so much in bed i want to do the same for him. Please help.
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reader, oldfool  +, writes (4 July 2008):
 Also figure out which parts are sensitive. The straightforward answer is, the underside, especially towards the top. Also the balls.
Caress and be gentle. Squeezing the penis is OK. "Rubbing" (like rubbing the skin anywhere on the body) it is not.
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reader, oldfool +, writes (4 July 2008):
The most important thing is to love his penis, have passion for his penis, but be gentle.
Don't ever "rub" it. It's to be caressed, cared for, fondled, loved.... Don't forget, a penis was meant to go in a vagina, which is warm, soft, and wet. When he gets excited, you can apply more pressure, watch it get harder and swell up -- but never "rub" his penis.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 July 2008): I said this before. With these type of things, it's better to learn from watching. I recommend you to go to youtube and type "how to give a blow job" or just the simple term "blow job" and I'm pretty sure there will be a couple of videos that will explain how to give one. Just be aware that you have to make an account and be older than 18 years old to watch these videos.
One important thing too is to look confident, even if you're not. Try to put your best act and remember that when giving him a blowjob to look at his face. They LOVE that.
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