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writes:hi!!!!! lifez becoming hard to me and i really need some advice to my problem wel in brief i was in luv with a guy for 2 years and everything was going on wel until 1day i came to know that my boyfriend is a big flirt;he dated many ;i couldnt believe and i was shocked because we were planning to get married and at that i became close to another guy who consoled me and i broke with my bf;my new boy friend[mr.x].. says that he luves me a lot but the problem is that he 2 has another girlfriend;im really vexd with my life each time i luv a guy sincerely and hes found guilty .mr.x says that he luves both and want both of us .because of his behaviour i lost feelings for him and now i feel like mising my first boy friend 2 confused .what 2 do???????????????????
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 July 2008): He's not ready to commit to you.
I suggest you spend longer next time getting to know a person before you get involved. Find out what they are looking for. That may save you some heartache.
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reader, Collaroy  +, writes (4 July 2008):
 Hi there,
Well, I think you are just choosing the wrong type of men mate .
Now I know it is not as easy to just change your habits by waving a magic wand, but ask your friends and family for a start. Ask them to be honest with you, do they like these men you go out with? Guys who are players or cheaters have little difficulty convincing a girl with flattery and lots of praise that they are the real deal, it doesnt work so well on family and friends who tend to see through it as they are protective of their loved ones. So ask people close to you if they genuinely like your next boyfriend. Tell them to be honest, if he seems like a player then wouldn't you rather know sooner than have your heart broken down the line?
You wouldnt be the first girl to try and break the mold, and that's what you got to do. Nothing is foolproof and you may meet another player , but if you attract players they come to you for a reason because they see you as someone who will fall for their sweet talk.
good luck anyway mate.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 July 2008): I am sure you are hurting; But neither of the two guys sound like good relationship material to me; they were cheating,and that means lack of respect; Dont even consider going back to the first guy; how will you ever be able to trust him?
You deserve better!
I suggest you make a list of all the qualities you are looking for in a partner; start dating and look for somebody that will value and love you; treat you with respect and not cheat behind your back!
Good luck!
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (4 July 2008):
Neither is giving you what you want so don't be with either of them. You obviously fell into a relationship with the second guy purely because you were hurt by the first.
Be single and get stronger. You will meet a nice guy eventually but only if you stop being so vunerable. Bad guys see that and jump on it.
Good Luck!! xx
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