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writes:I am a 28 years old and I think i am addiced to sex. I go out with different girls but i don`t like the way i am doing. so please, what can you advice me? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 July 2008): I know in women it is refered to as "nymphomania" being an abnormally strong sexual desire in heterosexual women, especially when directed at allarge number of men; I do believe the opposite is true for men;
I SUGGEST;
you see a sex therapist or get councelling;
I realize this is difficult for you, BUT they ONLY way you are going to find a solution to all these issues is with professional assistance;
You are young and healthy; get some help now; YOU CAN CHANGE YOUR LIFESTYLE.
Good luck
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reader, talker  +, writes (4 July 2008):
 I saw a documentary once about a guy who had the same issue. I think the best thing to do, if you don't like how the situation makes you feel, then you need to take your addiction seriously and see a therapist. A lot of people are put off by it because they feel that they are the only ones going through it and almost feel ashamed. I would say that you've already completed the first step, you have recognized that you have an addiction and want to make it stop. Now you have to take the appropriate steps to make yourself happier...research the areas around you, and shop around for a therapist that makes you comfortable. It will be tough but I am sure that if you try and are open about it, then you will be able to change what you don't like. Good luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 July 2008): How's this for an analogy - you put your hand in some very hot water. It hurts. You remove your hand from the water. It still hurts for a little while, but once cold water is poured over your hand the pain stops.
In other words, stop doing what you're doing!
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reader, Yos  +, writes (4 July 2008):
 So you are married, and having many affairs as well. If that is true, then there is a very good reason you are feeling uncomfortable, and you probably know what that is?
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reader, Dr Vendetta  +, writes (4 July 2008):
 I'm addicted to sex too.
i just don't get any.
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reader, Kiya +, writes (4 July 2008):
Kiya is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI mean Being addicted to sex and having affair with different girls makes me unconfertable.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 July 2008): I don't really understand your question; you are addicted to sex, you are going out with different girls and don't like the "way" you are doing? meaning going out with so many girls? having sex with all of them? or the way you are having sex?
Please can you be more spesific!
Thanks
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