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writes: Am i a freak because i will not have unprotected sex with my girlfriend and try and start a family?I am 15 and she is 19 and wants to start a family with me, but i am only younge and want to get a job and to be able to surport them both.I have never had sex before or even a proper girlfriend so she si the first. I think that she will leave me if i do not start a family.Im do not want to start a family but i do not want to lose her.What should i do?
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reader, jlc1867  +, writes (2 August 2008):
do not start a family at age 15.
if your girlfriend really loves you enough,
she'll wait until your older.
if she won't wait, shes really not worth it.
ive watched too many of my friends get pregnant at young ages.
it just basically ruined high school life & their future having kids that young. & it wont be good for your kids either.
wait until your older, trust me!
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reader, sappygirl +, writes (31 July 2008):
 Let her leave!! Any girl that wants to start a family with a 15 year old virgin is a sicko/wacko in my book.
Dump her now and dump her fast before she ruins your life.
You are way too young and you have your whole life ahead of you. She is the one that is insecure and is trying to tie you down. Please!Please!!! don't have sex with her..and if always be protected. It's not only about STD but your future at stake.
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reader, ChiRaven +, writes (30 July 2008):
 Definitely do not have unprotected sex until you are emotionally and financially ready to support a family. You show the kind of maturity rare in a person your age by considering these things in the face of pressure from your girlfriend. Stick to your decision. If she leaves you, you'll undoubtedly miss her a lot, but it's better to be without her than to be saddled with a family responsibility that you're just not anywhere near ready for at this point in your life.
Bravo for you!
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (30 July 2008):
Your girlfriend is a baby obsessed freak and technically a sexual predator. You are not over the age of consent for sex so under the law she is a paedophile.
Anyone who says they'll leave you if you don't have sex with them is a horrible person.
Don't be with this girl. Definitely don't be a dad so young. Like you say, you need a job to pay for a baby, as they are expensive little things.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, _Princess_ +, writes (30 July 2008):
If you love your girlfriend enough to have sex with her and she loves you back then she should understand that you want to wait before starting family.
Not only are you too young to be having sex Legally but how are you meant to support a girlfriend and a baby if your not even old enough to get a real job! You should concentrate on your exams and building a future for yourself.
Why dont you try asking your girlfriend why she wants a baby? that way you can start to understand why she is so desperate to do it now.
I think you should start using condoms as well, like i said before if your girlfriend loves you she will understand why you want to wait and if she doesnt then she isnt worth all your worry!
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