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writes:so i met this guy...he is amazing.he treats me like a princess...and i am seriously falling for him.but there is a problem:i am currently in a relationship.and have been for three years now.my boyfriend is great.good christian guy,understands me..but treats me crappy here recently.im not sure exactly what to do.one second we are arguing,and the next second,we are making up...dont get me wrong,he is wonderful...but he doesnt quite treat me as this new fella does, what should i do?
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (30 July 2008):
Well remember that the grass is always greener on the other side. I bet you thought you boyfriend treated you like a princess when you started going out too.
After 3 years many of the initial feelings of love start to fade, it's at this point that you find out if your relationship was lovely but had it's day, or can go the distance.
Separate the issues for a moment.
Do you still love your boyfriend? I'm guessing yes, but are you still In Love with him or do you just care incredibly deeply for him?
New guy is lovely but what he has really done is shine a torch on the cracks in your current relationship. That doesn't make him a better option, it's just shown you that you need to think about whether it's time to move on from your current boyfriend.
Good Luck!! xx
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