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reader, look samurai dick  +, writes (4 August 2008):
from a guys point of view...
girl on top- tits in my face, i do the "in-out" bit
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 August 2008): haha ok- this one I like. Probably my favorite position because despite popular belief, there is so much do to on top. Now keep in mind you don't want to get too crazy because it's hard for a guy to "control his timing" with you on top. You can do the regular laying on top while kissing, or sitting and bouncing up and down- or you can turn around (with your butt facing him)- that one really turns 'em on. Now back to being on top face forward, my man and I accidentally discovered this one. I was on top and my leg started cramping so I streched it out (so my foot was over his shoulder) and we continued.. AMAZING! Both legs over his shoulders (while he's lying down and you're on top) is also great. it works for females because his penis rubs against your g-spot, & he'll love it because it put pressure on his balls- which feels great for men. It's now one of our favorite positions- we do it almost everytime we have sex. Try it out :) Have fun!
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reader, talker +, writes (31 July 2008):
 Woman on top...just get on. LOL. When you're there you can either bounce up and down, which a lot of women do. You can lean back and let him watch you and you go up and down. Or you can lean forward and have your butt move up and down...now this one is very similar to those dance moves they do in the club. If you're not shy, then you can go on some websites and watch porn. It's the best way to educate yourself on how to do it. It takes a lot of work on your thighs but you gotta keep at it. Basically, if it feels good and you hit a spot...then keep going. Go fast, go slow...whichever works for you. You can kiss him, lick him, grab your boobs, have him grab your boobs, or you can lean back and then massage your clit. You just have to try it and position yourself in a way that makes you comfortable. Oh and leaning forward is great because then you can just put your boobs in his face. ;-) hahaha. Have fun!
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 July 2008): Woman on top is a great position for both partners. The man can fondle her boobs or she can bend over and hang them in his face. This position gives about the deepest penetration if that is what she wants. This is the best position for the greatest clitoral stimulation if using one of those vibrating rings. Since you are from the US, you can get those at WalMart or on the web. You can just sit there and feel the vibrations for a while while he fondles your boobs. The position can be tiring for the woman, especially if she uses the squating position instead of the kneeling position. You need to be young and in good shape to stay in the squating position for very long at all. Damn, here I go dreaming about the old days.
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reader, BigSis +, writes (31 July 2008):
 LOL @ female Anon!!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 July 2008): Hi
Make the most of it, tie him up, give him a slap,tell him to shut up, raid his wallet, lay him like a carpet then you can walk all over him! only joking.....
just enjoy ,you will find it comes natural with a little help from his lordship or you could always try the above he may just like it????
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reader, daletom +, writes (31 July 2008):
You do whatever feels good to you. Or to him. Or whatever you've always been curious to do when on top.
Do you straddle him, sit on him, or lay out full-length on him? Are your legs spread and out side of his, or are they together and between his?
A lot of women like on-top positions not only because they can control depth and pace of stroking, but they can also position themselves so the guy's erection (and/or pubic bone) touches her genital area "just right" in terms of both the location and the pressure.
And some women don't like being on-top because their whole backside is exposed, and making some un-ladylike movements that feel oh-so-very-nice.
I like it because I can use my hands all over my wife's body. And embrace her when she climaxes. And (especially when I was younger) I lasted longer when I was on my back.
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reader, heatherrrrrrr +, writes (31 July 2008):
 A simple answer? Play with your tits. Or put his hands on your tits. If you're feeling adventurous, reach behind you very very gently tug on his testicles with the tips of your fingers, as if they were delicate breakable eggs, never squeeze them.
If you can find it, watch "A Girl's Guide to 21st Century Sex." It's a BBC documentary that will teach you everything you will ever need to know about sex, the science part and the physical stuff like fun positions to try. You could even watch it with your boyfriend.
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reader, BigSis +, writes (30 July 2008):
Hey Blueys, it's you again.
So you've managed to come out with it and tell him about wanting more than just giving him a b/j. Good for you. Glad that part went well.
Now, you on top? Hmmm...lovely position....
: )
Being on top is one of the most common sexual positions. One version of this position you can try is, sit on top of your b/f facing him, your knees bent and shins on the ground or bed. Another way is, keep your feet on the ground so you're in a 'squatting' position over your partner, for this position you need pretty strong leg muscles, it can get tiring tho', but this way means you have more possibilities for moving up and down on him. There is yet another position, {Am I moving to fast for you? LOL!} You can sit on your fella facing away from him, (so that your bum is facing him) lean back slightly once he's penetrated you, and you can support yourself with your hands and use his arms to bring yourself up and down.
These sex positions will give YOU the greatest amount of control, the pace of the thrusting, and the angle of penetration. OH! and, it also means your clitoris is open and available for stimulation from his hands or a toy, very important, that.
Practice makes perfect, Blueys, and good luck. I want an update on all the juicy details...LoL!
BigBadSis
xXx
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (30 July 2008):
Well you can bounce up and down or move back and forwards.
Here is a link that will help,
http://sexuality.about.com/od/sexualpositions/p/womanontop.htm
put sex position or woman on top into google.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, aphexinfinite +, writes (30 July 2008):
 heres a website that gives you advice on how to do positions correctly although to know whats good for you and your partner communication http://www.sexinfo101.com/sexualpositions.shtml good luck aphex xx
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reader, ChiRaven +, writes (30 July 2008):
 Pretty much the same thing your guy does when he's on top. Communication is the key, just as at any other time. The two of you should be willing to let one another know what works for you and what doesn't.
For information on a lot of different possible positions, try Wikipedia or some other source. We're really not a "how to" site.
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