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writes:Im 19 and I went to school with this guy (lets call him A) who recently sent me a message over msn. We havent really seen or spoke to each other since school, just the odd 'hi how are you' when we run into each other at places.In school we werent really friends or anything, I was wayyyy to shy to talk to him. Anyway, when we were talking yesterday, he asked me if i had a bf and I said no. He asked why not and he also askd what I was looking for. He then said 'are you looking for a italian electrician by any chance? hahaha'. Hes italian and hes an electrician.He later went on to ask me for my number and if I wanted to catch up. I said yes...So I guess he likes me right?The real problem is though, he used to play soccer with this guy (lets call him B) years ago who I dated earlier this year. Now my relationship with B was ruined due to a friend of his (lets call him C) who spread vicous rumours about me around. Now A and C also kind of know each other.Im afraid that if I go out with A, C or B will say something nasty. C seems to have it out for me because he used to like me and asked me out and I said no, I knew he wanst a nice guy and whats hes doing just proves it. Do you think im worried about nothing? Is there anything I can do, to prevent C or my ex bf, B from making up bad lies about me to A, or anything I can do to make A not believe them?
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 July 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionAsk oldersister- i know we are all adults now but this happened recently between the ages of 18 and 19. and C still sends me nasty messages, so i dont think hes quite over it yet.
we dont live in a small town, its a city of about 160 000 or so people, although you may think thats fairly big, most people who live in this city grew up here, so they all know each other and rumours do get around easily.
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reader, Jamer70  +, writes (30 July 2008):
 Like oldersister said you guys are kids anymore, your adults, your getting scared of a situation that might not even happen. If C spreads rumors tell A what he did last time and if hes man enough he will ignore them.
Most likely C has grown up and wont care.
Stop fretting and enjoy life
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reader, fergiepunk +, writes (30 July 2008):
I think its best not to worry as it is only a possibility of this happening. However you could explain to A about what C has done and surely he can understand.
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