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male
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30-35,
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writes: I have some confidnce on pretty girls cute popular i mean they like me but when im gonna try talk to the girl i like i get shy and stop talking.. i just dont get it
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reader, maggiex95 +, writes (31 July 2008):
the nice ones actually like shy guys better...i know i do, at least! don't worry, either you'll get over it, or some girl will love said shyness, and eventually, you'll get comfortable talking to her.
XX maggie
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reader, Dinkie +, writes (30 July 2008):
most guys come off actin to cool anyway when theyr not and most girls hate that. its cute that you get shy. But just try to be yourself and try not to see her as extra special wen your first talkin to her it will only make u get more shy
think of her like a new friend
good luck with it
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reader, LoveJoy +, writes (30 July 2008):
Hey don't worry about it, if you get shy in front of girls, then try taking deep breaths and be confident, tell yourself good things, otherwise just say hi when you pass her and how are you start off a conversation simply, not using too many words :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 July 2008): thats called infatuation, let me guess, you think shes 11/10 right? absoloute godess, drop dead sexah. you've stuck the girl you like on a pedastal and now you cant get her down to your level. in other words you screwed up before you started.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 July 2008): aww thats cute..it means that ur a shy nice guy
thats good cuz most guys just are players but u it seems like ur a sweetheart..just talk to her online then maybe ur like me but i'm a girl..when i like someone i talk online and then they usually know me soo theres no problem of be freezzing up..but be confident be urself some girls actually like that a guy is shy
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reader, Shipwreckd +, writes (30 July 2008):
That's because you're not fully confident in yourself and you're placing too much emphasis on the "like" aspect of approaching these girls. You're worrying about "putting on a face" for these girls.
This is easier said than done, but try just approaching them as you would a friend, with no other thought in mind. Be yourself, be confident, and treat her with respect. You'll be surprised with the results!
Good luck!
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