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anonymous
writes:My boyfriend and i decided to have a break from one another 3 days ago. We have been together 18 months, and it has been a long distance relationship (we live 100 miles apart). The sex has not been good for a while now, and the touchy-feely, laughter part of our relationship has decreased.It was my decision to have the break as i have recently started to wonder whether i want to spend the rest of my life/future with him. I have no doubts at all that i do love him-its whether i am actually "In Love" with him.What confuses me is why i cannot stop crying since we separated?? I have been hurt in the past, so i know that hurting someone else is something that i hate myself for. But the crying and unhappiness i feel has come unexpected....i thought i would feel some kind of relief...so now the more i think about things, the more confused i feelis this normal behaviour???
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 October 2008): I am sorry I only noticed your unanswered question now.
I don't know if you still need the advice, but my answer to your question if it can still be of assistance.
I think it is very normal behaviour. I think it is due to you feeling lonely and missing his companionship.
Hope you are doing beter by now.
Always remember:
"Keep love in your heart. A life without it is like a sunlees garden when the flowers are dead". (quote by Oascor Wilde).
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