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writes:i'm 13 and i want to have a baby but i don't feel unloved my mom and my friends would do anything they could to help me why do i still want a baby so badly?
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 August 2008):
i am also 13 yrs. old and i really do want a baby truthly bc ill be happier with it bc ill finally have somethin i can truly call my own n you might want a baby cus they cute and luvable but they are a lot of work so i really dont even know what 2 tell you cus i feel the same way you do about wanting a baby at this age my advice is :just do what makes you happy do whatevr makes you feel right
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reader, Bill23 +, writes (1 August 2008):
Are you out of you mind keep your head in them books and away from the dumb ass boys. How can someone in your age group even yourself be able to raise a child do you have a 9 to 5 job. And it's not your moms problem to take care of it also. So what you are saying is that you want to throw your life away.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 August 2008): The reality is very different to the dream. Ask yourself if you'll be happy babysitting while all your pals are out having fun. After a good night out they'll be sleeping it off while you're tearing your hair out trying to get the baby to sleep, changing shitty diapers, preparing feeds etc.
It's probably your hormones playing up as you grow into a young woman. Ignore them and get on with having some fun in your life instead of wanting to be tied down for at least the next 18 years. You'd be 31 by then - absolutely ancient!
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reader, aphexinfinite  +, writes (1 August 2008):
 its a young kids dream to be a mummy just like their own mum. an to be a good of a mum as their own.but having a child at your age is highly dangerous as your bodie is not developed enough to give it what it needs for a good healthy child.. i would speak to your mum about this and also see a gp and tell them how you feel.. dont be ashamed everyone will understand so dont be frightened talk with your mum and gp.. good luck hun aphex hug xx
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reader, xxbecksyxx +, writes (1 August 2008):
 You could just generally like children, and feel as though you'd like to have one yourself to see what it feels like to care for a youngster.
But, hunny, you're too young to have one now. Wait until you're older, and have a steady relationship with a man you love very much. And even then, you'll have to consider some things.
Do you have enough money to care for the baby?
Are you willing to give up your time to care for it?
Do you have the requirements it will need?
It's fine that you want one. Just wait until you're older.
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