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*roubledLover
writes:I have this one probleme my best friend is trying to break me and my boyfriend up, and it really huts to know she is doing that what should i do?
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reader, PsyCookie  +, writes (31 July 2008):
 First, go and confront her and ask her why she's doing this. Listen to her reasons and judge on them.
If she is afraid on losing you, then assure her that you will never leave her and that she's your best friend for a reason and that your boyfriend will NEVER change that. If she's jealous that you have a boyfriend/has low esteem issues, then tell her that she will eventually find someone for herself and to not worry.
Now, if she just wants your boyfriend, tell her, in a very firm voice and serious and confident, that he's with you and that he chose you because he loves you. Tell her to back off or your friendship will be over. Try to sound mature and to not yell or call her names, this way you will look more mature and the bigger person. She has to realize that he's YOURS and that she has no rights to take him away from you.
Now, if she sees something bad on him, ask her why she didn't tell you so. Also, ask her what bad things she sees in him. Judge her answers on whether they're right or wrong and take your actions. If she's right, then try to look for proofs. If she's wrong, tell her how he really is since you know him better.
Now just try and talk to her. I gave you what to do in different scenarios, so I hope you practice one of them. Good luck
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reader, tryin2helpu +, writes (30 July 2008):
 i would tell her to back out. and tell her shes hurting you, and if ur boyfriend truely likes you, he wont let her get in the way best of luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 July 2008): You should drop your friend like a hot potatoe... a real friend would never do that to you. If you don't want to make a huge step like that, then try talking to your friend with a honst dialonge. Best of luck Sugar Booger!!
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