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writes:I have a guy-friend. We used to be close but dated briefly and are just now renewing our friendship. Last time I spent time with him, we were joking around and ended up making out. Today, when I saw him again, he kissed me good-bye. I still have emotional feelings for him but, as I have tried to move on from him, not as strong as they used to be. I still love him but it's more that lasting love of your first love than a passionate current love, if that makes any sense. In any case, we are going to be seperated nearly permanently in less than a month. We have discussed it and decided it would be best for both of us not to be in a relationship with each other. However, we have both made it clear that we are physically attracted to each other still (but I should make clear, we have never and have no intention to ever have sex). Is it wrong to have a physical and noncommitted relationship with this guy, given our history and impending future? I am happy to answer any questions and make any more statements so just ask away.
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reader, babewithbrains  +, writes (30 July 2008):
 Oh go for it!
However, you cant let yourself be tied down by this and you have to make him understand you will see other people if you so wish once you are apart! He is obviously laid back about it and i doubt anything will come of it so just enjoy it while it lasts!
Have fun,
Jelly
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reader, heatherrrrrrr +, writes (30 July 2008):
 I wouldn't worry about it too much if you're just making out or fooling around a little. The fact that you know he's leaving makes it kind of fun, you get to spend your last month together doing fun stuff. You're young, this is fun time! Just don't get an STD. That's not so fun.
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