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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:Hi! I am a 22 year old woman, I am currently with the father of my baby, we have been together for 6 years now.At the beginig of 2008 I found he had been cheating on me with his ex... (complicated right?)Well, in this years he has been really negletive of me... (and it does not hurts to say that I was depoted to him for about 4 years... until I got tired of his S#%**t) he would not come home from time to time, be a little rude ... a complete jerk... I was thinking about ending the relationship with him any way... when I found about he cheating.After this, I started to notice more and more a very very very good friend (I will call him James) of us ( my Bf and me).Well James* has always be very special to me and with me, in fact when we first met (James, my BF and me) he was the one who wanted to date me. Some where in the way I ended up going out with my BF.Ok, the thing now is that lately I can't stop thinking about James, and he keeps being special to me. I decide to give my BF a last chance, but I am not in love with him anymore... I care for him and some what love him but I am not IN love. And I don't know what to do... should I foerget about James and keep trying with the father of my baby or just send my BF to hell and try with James?? or just forget about both of them?.
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reader, KimmyDee20  +, writes (30 July 2008):
 Hey there ,
To be honest with you , staying with the father of your child for the sake of your child will not make things any better and i have to say that i have so much admiration for being a kind a generous woman for giving him that second chance despite the way he has treated you.... im not sayin that what you should o next just to spite him ould be to run off ith his best friend im jusy simply saying that james is a loving a caring man .... then id say think about the pros and cons of what could / will happen .... however i must say that if your your boyfriend treatsyou the way that he does then then this something that you would need to sit down and think about what you want and what would be best for the baby and if it means being with james is the answer of your happiness of course no one can stop you and whatever it is its time to think about umber one and that is you ... your boyfriend clearly does not know ho to treat a lady with respect and thats something that you would need to talk to him in a civilised manner
i hope this will in someways help you through this ,
best of luck in your decision, and keep posted
K.xxx
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