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writes:My friend i've liked alot we got together and for a week it was good, but i found out his mother hated me, took his phone off him and because he hasnt got a job stopped all his money just so he couldn't see me (he's 18). So i broke up with him and it hurt really bad cos he's perfect. Now everytime we get together we kiss and stuff when we see each but wont tell his parents. Now i'm scared i'll get close to him and get hurt and i don't know whether to carry on or just cut him lose now to avoid it. Any thoughts? Any will help. =(
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 July 2008): If he is 18 he shouldn't care what his parents say. He is an adult now. You need to ask him if he wants to continue seeing you and let his parents know and just let them get over it or if he wants to be mummy and daddys little boy all of his life. You obviously care for him very much and I hope everything turns out good. Also why don't they like you?
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 July 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questioni am 18 she doesnt even know me but cos im taking her son off her kinda stuff and i don't tihnk he is dependent he's full time at college so its hard to get money. But as he said he was willing to put up with all the crap she put him through for me cos theres alot more i just wanted you guys to get the gist of it.
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reader, ChiRaven  +, writes (31 July 2008):
 There's a lot you're leaving out here. Like how old you are, and why his mother objects to you. And is there a relationship between those two facts?
If he's going along with his mother's program of not seeing you, and he has to sneak around to do it and isn't willing or able, at 18, to live his own life, then I'd say the prospects of your making something with this guy are not too good. Sounds to me like you ARE getting set up for a fall here. But without more information (especially why his mother objects and why he's so dependent on her at 18) it's hard to say.
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