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30-35,
*ryin2helpu
writes:well i'm 14 and reallllly want to have a baby. i want to be married and, 5 months pregnant right now. i have babysat a lil a baby before but so i know its not a walk in the park. and i know they refuse to sleep and cry and stuff and im catholic so its out of the question. but i still realllly want a baby. even though they can be a pain it all seems worth it when they run to u and say i love you. its priceless. i know its selfish and blah blah blah but i cant help it. i hav e always been a baby person. when all my friends and family would be outside playing i'd be inside with the baby. i just dunno wat to do the other night i had a dream i was pregnant and it was great but i was still a virgin i had the baby put in me. and i was so happy, i can descirbe it.
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reader, MissWendlemoot  +, writes (5 August 2008):
 Hi honey,
You're right the Catholic church does frown on unwed teenage pregnancies. There is plenty of time for babies after you have finished university, have a good paying job, and are married to a loving decent man.
Why not try some volunteer work at an old age home or an animal shelter?
Best wishes xo
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 August 2008): you shoul wait till your 20 or older, yes, you want to have a baby,but what about hving a bunch of boyfriends, having late nites gettin drunk?no,gatta get home to a seven year old,think about the things in life you will miss,and what happens when ur kid tell all their friends he/she was concieved at 14???my aunt had her daughter when she was 15, and it didnt turn out well.
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reader, tryin2helpu +, writes (30 July 2008):
tryin2helpu is verified as being by the original poster of the question thank you so much!XOXO
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reader, ladybugb +, writes (30 July 2008):
Hi Dear,You really need to look at the WORLD you have ahead of you. I know at 14, even I thought I knew everything there is to know. If you are going to have a child you need to grow up, go to college, have a real job and experience the world before you can even THINK about really having a child. I have no doubt that you could potentially be a good mother but you have your ENTIRE life to have babies. You would want to provide and give that child every single thing in this world and unfortunately no matter what you are thinking at 14 you have not experienced half of the proper necessary life situations to be able to aid a small child in. I know you see in the media all of these celebrities having babies and how glamorous it is but you have to realize that those people all have millions of millions of dollars. At 14 you should be worried about what boy likes you, what you want your future prom dress to be, driving your first car, going to college, etc. I hope this helped!
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reader, heatherrrrrrr +, writes (30 July 2008):
 Get a puppy.
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