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writes:I have been a bit too full on with this guy and contacting him too often and I think he is fed up with it-so I feel like giving it one last shot and try the reverse and hold back and be hard to get. Do you think it could be worth a try in the old saying of play hard to get and be more valuable to him if youre not too easy to have? we have never slept together and I must admit I have been a bit too much full on so I am asking you whislt I know nothing is guaranteed is it worth one last shot at the other direction of - leaving him alone and dont contact him and stay quiet COULD it work in my favour- is it worth a try??? I hate the thought of losing contact forever because of my silliness so shall I try the other method jsut to see if it works-it might not-but worth a try??? be quiet , no contact and see what happens?????? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 July 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for the advice but deep down I think I realise its over anyway. I think he just wanted sex when I met him and after he went back then its back to normal living and he wasnt interested as no doubt he probably has offers where he lives so I will jsut have to be brave and try and find someone else
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (30 July 2008):
Well don't cut contact completely without a word, he'll think he's done something wrong. He's not psychic. And he'll just think you are being strange.
If you are texting and ringing him too much then do it less, that is obvious, but just be normal about it... don't play games with the poor guy.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 July 2008): Yes, I think that you should give it a try. It could work... just be patient and he might start missing you and realize that he does want you. Or he might be relieved. You certainly won't get anywhere if you continue contacting him, though, and I'm glad you know that.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 July 2008): I think that you should maybe you should just let him know that you are now going to wait for him to contact you and that be the last time you contact him. At least for maybe two or three days. If he hasn't contacted you by then, maybe try contacting him again. If he still isn't replying, just wait a little longer. Hope it helps and good luck!!!
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