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writes:Basically, I've been with this guy for about 4 months now.. He hasn't been with me that much recently. I have a hunch that he thinks I'm clingy.. I want to know how to stop him from thinking that. If you guys think I should play hard to get.. Can you give me some tips on how to, because I always end up failing on the hard to get game. Reply to this Question
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reader, scrazy  +, writes (23 July 2008):
 Err, sorry to tell you hun. But he already HAS you. You've been together for 4 months now, you can't pay hard to get anymore.
It's more like, 'I don't need to be with you all the time, so I'm not going to answer your phone calls, I'm going out with the girls tonight and I'll call you when I feel like it!'
You're exerting your independence and showing him that you don't always need him to be around.
It'll put some of the chase back into your relationship, even though at the end of the day - he has you and will continue to have you as long as you're in your relationship.
Take Care
XO
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 July 2008): Don't call him. Even when you want to really really bad. Let him come to you. Even if you're waiting by the phone to hear from him...let him think you are busy with your own life. The more you act like you don't care...the more the want your attention. It's a chase for them that they enjoy. Esp..guys your age. good luck
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