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writes:Below is the site of my pervious situation http://www.dearcupid.org/question/he-shows-all-these-signs-he-likes-me.htmlMy situation continues, so Jack (the man I like) he invited me to a meal, so I went. He invited all his mates and my mates well the one’s who he hangs around with and the one’s I hang around with in college. I went to the restaurant and things seemed awkward as I was the last one to come everyone was talking to Jack (they seemed to all argue with him) as I could see when I entered but when I came they all went quiet and seemed to act fake. Hardly anyone talked to me except from Jack, he talked to me but my mates and his mates just all went quiet and starred each time. Then my parents walked in, I went to see them and sat with them for a while at least talking. Before I went I texted my sister to give me a call faking that I need to be home, so I went back to the table and my sister called I pretended I had to go trying my best to get away, as I was bored out my brains. I said sorry etc… I was about to leave, and Jack just was so keen of me not to go I said sorry and told him some other time, he insisted to stay to eat, but I went. Now I thought he was flirting with me but while I was heading towards a shop in the city centre just before I was going to go home, I saw Jack in the far distance I was walking towards him when the women he was talking to kissed him and I mean a proper kiss. I stopped walking towards him and just went the opposite direction to the shop, later when I got home I saw him again he came towards me and was acting all normal nothing strange but I just couldn’t bare to see him, I felt like he cheated on me (even though I’m not his girlfriend) and used me just for his pleasure. He said something but I never heard what he said at all, I just kept thinking about the kiss with that girl and it kept repeating over and over again in my mind. I felt so sick seeing him, annoyed, really hurt, upset. I couldn’t ever imagine him do such a thing flirt with me but go kissing some one else, he seemed so sweet and kind that it was un imaginable that he would hurt someone in such a way. I don’t know what happened exactly but I fainted, after some time I woke up, totally fine, but with some pains in my pancreas. Feel better, but my question is should I confront him of what I saw? I would have asked him when he came up to me when I was by my house but I did think that as I am not his girlfriend I don’t seem to have a right on who he sees and does things with kissing etc.. and don’t have the right to ask, so I never said anything. I’m blaming myself for what happened because I should have just made a move on the kiss. But then I didn’t do anything for him to feel like I’m not interested I even explained why I went off in the restaurant (it wasn’t only because I was bored out my brains it was also I felt quiet dizzy and sick) I told him that and he seemed to understand, and totally fine with it. But then theirs more, I saw his sister and she goes that he’s been going on about me 24/7 and wants to see me, so I’m confused :S and she goes that I go down his house tomorrow, does he like me or not? He even told my mates he does like me what’s the kissing with the other girl about, he can’t kiss me but can kiss her. He had made my life at the moment a misery I keep finking of him 24/7 and thinking why would he do that, err I really need some help what do I do next, and how what shall I say to him or ask him. Have I got the right to ask him anything about the kiss? I’ve always said I will never fall in love until I’m ready, and old enough. I don’t feel old enough, as I have to much pressure on me from what I saw. Any advice or opinion will be appreciative. Thank you
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reader, aphexinfinite +, writes (23 July 2008):
 hrm wonder what he has to tell you..if you like him and you think he likes you then go for it, btw the presents he left you makes a statement that he likes you alot im pretty sure he doesnt do that for all his friends(wish my bf did oO)..if you both decide you like each other and want to go out then i would ask him about the girl and the kiss because u may think about it alot more than you should, if you like him then go for it but clear the air so you can start a relationship without bad thoughts...hope that helps aphex xx hug
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 July 2008): Update so far, so the door bell rang i went to open it, thiers a bouchet of flowers and a big chocolate box and a jelewry box, i thourght it was my little sisters so i called her saying theres something by the door for her, she went checked it and the card inside the flowers said it was for me, shocked i was. Didn't know who it was from yet but was suprised, i felt a little spirit rise in me (i felt happy mood change lol) i checked everything, it was all ever so sweet and nice and it was from Jack, and he said on the card sorry for you sadness, even though i'm not sure if it was me and if it was i'm sorry i'm sorry i'm sorry. Meet me tomorrow at 6:00pm make sure you be there got something urgent to tell you, (wear something really nice) and please do tell me why you have been sad for some time. I found it so cute what he wrote. Does it sound like he likes me then? and should i make the move or should i let him? Shoudl i tell him that i sawhim and a this girl kissing.
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