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writes:hey everyone,I have been really good friends with this girl that goes to the same uni as me. As we got to know each other I asked her out for lunch one day and walked her home etc. I never dated her then because she had just broke up with someone and I wanted to give her some space. I was invited to her 21st only weeks after we met. The 2 of us would help each other out with our courses and would spend countless hours on the grass chatting away.Well anyway the year passed and I never asked her out and she was still single. So before she went back to her hometown for summer I bought her a limited edition CD from her facvoutite band. Over my summer holidays I have been contemplating asking her out, the only thing is she is 200 miles away and if I was to ask her out now we couldn't see each other to go out etc. I'm making a trip there early next month and i've asked to meet up with her then. Today she tells me that she has a date tonight with a guy she met the other night. She said she wasn't keen but is still going ahead. When she told me this my heart just sank and I nearly broke down in tears. I feel so helpless. However on msn I left her with me saying "I have something very important to ask you when you come back to uni" I really just hope i'm not too late. Do you think I should tell her how I feel about her? Thing is I would really like to tell her this in person instead of text, call or IM. Thanks for any help.
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reader, meadowsweet  +, writes (22 July 2008):
tell her !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 July 2008): Do it now before its too late...i've been in that situation before but more often u end up being in that dreaded 'friendzone'...u do NOT want that! Since a year has gone past to be honest its a bit of a 50/50 of how the outcome could be but it better to get it out the way now than to see her go off with someone else and u kicking yourself cos u never said anything
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reader, spanglegirl +, writes (22 July 2008):
 I think you should definatly tell her how you feel, just my opinion but maybe she is waiting for you to say something. Yes she may have told you she was going on a date, but look back at your question-you go on to say that she said she wasn't very keen on the idea. Thiscould be her way of giving you that little nudge in the right direction. I think you should tell her how you feel, at least then it will be out in the open and it won't be eating you up anymore. And if things don't go the way you plan, well from the sound of it your friendship sounds pretty strong and although things may be a little awkward at first, the friendsip would most likely survive it. Good luck!
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