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Does he want to be more than just friends with benefits?

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Question - (22 July 2008) 3 Answers - (Newest, 22 July 2008)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Okay... I have been talking to this guy for the past two or three weeks... When we first talked we decided that we were going to be friends with benefits and nothing else... I feel like I might be starting to want him as more than just a fwb...

Recently, we were on the phone and I drifted off, and he three wayed one of his friends. He started telling his friend that he wanted to give another girl some lovin' for her birthday... I was very offended. We talked then he told me he might have wanted to have a relationship with me but I said I didn't want one. I was flattered at first but then I thought maybe he just said that because he didnt want to lose the benefits...

But he confuses me because he calls me everyday and we talk for hours, he calls me baby, he says he cares about me, he says he misses me, he has asked me go to events with him, and he said he is really feeling me. He has even gone as far as to ask me how I feel about him... I am so confused, so my question is... Does he want to be more than just friends with benefits?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (22 July 2008):

This is verified as being by the original poster of the question

Oh... and I forgot to mention that he said that he doesn't want to mess with anyone else...

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A female reader, breezieworthy United States +, writes (22 July 2008):

hey.i totally think you should cut off all connection with this guy because he seems like all he wants is just the benefit ive noticed fromperson experiace that some men will say those 3 little words or say i care about you or i want a relationship with you to get that one little thing i think its time you kick @$$ to the curb and find someone new

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A female reader, breezieworthy United States +, writes (22 July 2008):

hey.i totally think you should cut off all connection with this guy because he seems like all he wants is just the benefit ive noticed fromperson experiace that some men will say those 3 little words or say i care about you or i want a relationship with you to get that one little thing i think its time you kick @$$ to the curb and find someone new

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