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writes:I a 28 years old and have been in and out of relationships since i was 14 but i can't seem to settle for what ive got and always mess fings upI have just recently come out of a relationship and have had to move back with my parents for the 3rd time!! I have a really good male friend who i have known for a few years and we have started getting cosy together,he would treat me like a princess if i let him,we have slept together on nomious occasions but i find it hard to find a sexual spark with him, its so frustrating because he has everything else a girl would ever need he is great company he makes me laugh and i want to settle but i im so scared that i can't trust myself and sleep with someone elseHe is confused because i will not commit to a relationship with him and wants to stop seeing me because of his feelings but if he disappears from my life i will be truly gutted! Help i dont know what to do??
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 July 2008): "But i find it hard to find a sexual spark with him, its so frustrating because he has everything else a girl would ever need"
Unfortunately he will for some other woman, but this woman isn't you. Don't worry, you'll meet somebody else one day. Understand him when he says he cares too much and he can't be in contact with you right now. Don't worry, he will meet somebody else one day too.
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reader, birdynumnums  +, writes (22 July 2008):
 I think that if he ever knew that you were "settling" for him, HE'D be gutted. Don't you think that he deserves someone who thinks he's the sun, the moon and the stars? And why would you not want that for yourself as well. Marriage is challenging enough without entering into it with such low expectations. I'd let him go. You'll know when you meet the right man, because you won't have to ask anyone else if what you are doing is the right thing or not. Good Luck!
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