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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes: I have been good friends wiht one of my ex boy friends since we broke up. I talk to him almost every night, but i keep wanting to tell him i love him and play those games we use to play like "you hang up no you hang up" I am married and while i cant say we are the happiest in the world we do love each other. I have the same but different problem with my other ex. we broke up badly over stuff that never happened. I want to talk to him and be firends with him but either he or his new girl wont have it. I keep getting depressed of stupid little things like that and i dunno why. I dont want either of them back i love my husband. Why do i feel like i do?
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reader, TELLULAH  +, writes (23 July 2008):
 Sometimes babe, you cant have both. You have to decide who is more important. If you love your husband then he must come first XXX
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 July 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI dont want to be with them iwant to be able to be firends with them wihtout having feeling. I love my husband.
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reader, TELLULAH +, writes (22 July 2008):
It sounds to me like you got married to young and wern't really ready.
You cant expect to still have the relationships with ex's that you used to have. For a start its unfair on your husband, and unfair on your ex's new partners.
You need to decide what is important to you. If you love the man you are with, then you shouldnt be on the phone to your ex every night (i think you know this though).
If you dont stop this you will ruin everything you have. But of course its up to you honey.
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