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I'm attracted to my cousin. Is this normal? What should I do?

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Question - (22 July 2008) 3 Answers - (Newest, 30 July 2008)
A male United States age 36-40, anonymous writes:

I'm attracted to my cousin. Shes my first cousin through marraige, but I've known her before my parents married. We always hit it off and she has a great personality. However, I'm also physically attracted to her and I don't know what she thinks of me. I know she likes me as a friend and cousin, but I'm torn because I want her to feel the same way about me (she might, I kind of have a feeling) but I know that I shouldn't pursue this as it will cause serious family problems. Is this normal? any advice on whether or not I should find out if she likes me or not?? thanks

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (30 July 2008):

Well i just found out my cousin likes me hes like my first cousin too.but it was kind of weird that he just told me over text message.He also said i had a nice body but latley we have been talking alot and im kind of likeing him too.but i think that this is weird and i dont know wat to do or say so its akward but i think u shoul talk to her and hopefully my cousion will talk to me.

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A male reader, Jdizzle05189 United States +, writes (22 July 2008):

I think that u just need to talk to her sit her down and tell her everything just explain to her how u feel and y and see how it goes from there and if she dont like what you are say then you know sooner or later u will have to let it go u cant base ur life on one girl because thenu will never be happy and trust me life sucks when ur not happy. There are plenty of beautiful girls out there u just have to wait for the time to come to u. Yea it weird its ur cousin but she is not blood so that is fine but hey good luck and see what happens you will neveer know till u talk!

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A male reader, anonymous11 United States +, writes (22 July 2008):

it seems pretty normal some people are attracted to there sisters but they dont act on it

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