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*bbeyLouise
writes:Hi, i have a problem, im 16 years old and i dont know anything about my birth father. not even a name. im not adopted. i try to ask my family especially my mum but they just seem to go quiet and change the subject. all i want in my life is to know who my birth father is, i dont want a wedding without my dad, i dont want my kids to grow up without knowing a grandad. please help i have been crying my self to sleep more often just thinkin of what he could be like.please if anyone could help i would be over the moonxxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 August 2008): i know you how you feel my name is bill and im 48 years old i have been looking all my life but wheen i get close i hit a bump and start all over agin dont get you hopes up just belive in your self and be who you are i wish you lost of luck billy
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (22 July 2008):
Check your birth certificate. His name might be on there.
If it's not then your mum may have a good reason for not telling you who he is. He could have been a bad person and she could be trying to protect you. However you are getting old enough to understand these bad things. Ask her again in a quiet moment, tell her you don't want to upset her and you love her, but you really want to know why he's not in your life. If you ask for the reason you don't know she might open up about it and then you may be able to find more details for yourself. Stay calm with her and be understanding if she gets upset.
Good Luck!! xx
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