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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:My ex and I broke up almost a month and half ago after being together for a year and a half.for the last 3 or 4 weeks we had still been sleeping together and he still seemed concerned about my life. Last night he came over like usually and we had sex then we fought he thought I was talking to other guys which I haven't been in that way he took my phone and left. I followed him he wanted me to unlock my phone to show him I hadn't talked to anyone I didn't of course not because of that but its my personal phone. Then he started being mean to me calling me a whore and saying how can I trust you then he changed and started to cry. He said hugging and kissing me I want you to move on please let me go I can't ever love you the way that you deserve and its not me. He has a child from a previous relationship. He said I am in love someone that will never love me back. He said he really does care about me and does love me but he couldn't do it anymore and that I had done nothing wrong and not to answer his calls when he's drunk. I couldn't take it and just walked away I turned around and saw that he had stopped and was watching me walk away. He said there was no one else I believe him. I don't know what to do is there any way we can work it out?
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reader, Phsyciatrist-to-be  +, writes (23 July 2008):
 I agree with Jen86: he's really insecure. I cant tell what he wants, or what he wants for you. One moment he shouts at you and blames you fo stuff you didnt do, the next he's crying and telling you to move on, then he says he loves you. I recomend you break it off with him altogether, else it could get worse: possibly violent.
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