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writes:Hiya,I'm really confused. Theres this guy who i have been getting to know for the last couple weeks. I really do like him and he says he likes me. We were gonna wait for tuesday which is today to actually go out.. but the last couple days things havent been the same... him and his gf only broke up around 3-4 weeks ago..and im just hoping im not just a rebound. Hes been asking me out the last few days but i said i wanted to wait till tuesday (today) and hes been acting a little weird, like each days he gets less and less interested. He says i get too paranoid but i dunno if it is just me..Hes younger than me, hes 17 and im 18 nearly 19 and tbh i just think i want something more serious than what he does. What do you think?
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reader, Talksense +, writes (22 July 2008):
 It is difficult to know what to do, there might be a number of reasons to why he is acting a little strange. He could be a bit nervous, guys that age sometimes are like that going out with someone older than them. Also, he might be comfused he's been only split up a couple weeks (Does he and his ex still have contact?) They might be wanting to give it another go, there are loads o' things. So you should go out with him and just enjoy yourself, but be mature about this you might fancy him but you can't be thinking all serious already, go out on a few dates and makehim prove to you that he wants you, cos you can't tell after one date, even if he tries to play the two of you, you will know something is not right, because of the attention you want you won't be getting it. Words are just that words he must prove in his actions, but it will happen over time and not straightaway, if he likes you he will wait on you in everyway, but don't let him wait too long, again you will know when he's done enough of trying, the fact is the main thing you need to keep is your dignity and respect because even if he don't get him eventually, you will have lost nothing. Good Luck
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (22 July 2008):
I think you should go out on the date with him and see how he acts then. If he starts showing danger signs of wanting sex too fast, or wanting super commitment, or talking about his ex too much then you might want to be careful.
He's been split up with her for nearly a month so go in with an open mind that he might be genuine.
Have fun and Good Luck!! xx
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