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writes:i told a guy that i love him so much and at first he didnt say anything but then he told me that he loves me, but i am just not sure if he really means it or not, because i thought it would be easy for him to say after me saying it. how do i know if the guy really loves me or not?and if he doesn't how could i make love me I REALLY LOVE THAT GUY AND REALLY WANT HIM boys PLEASE answer my question, my heart is tired of worrying. Reply to this Question
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reader, Talksense  +, writes (22 July 2008):
 Firstly, you can't make someone love you no matter how hard you try, it has to come from within him. The really Good Thing about love is you can't hide it or pretend, it's like a bright beaming light almost blinding, if loves his there it automatically shows itself. That's why the biggest thing in being able to tell is in his actions, he will go out of his way for you, he will show you off, you will see it in his eyes, in his face. Also the greatest way of showing you he loves you is that he allows you to be free, to be who you want to be. A man can be Strong and domineering without being controlling a nd possesive. If your relationship involves mutual trust, honesty and willingness to share and listen to each other, then he cares for you. The key is to live your life and make him show you these things, don't give him a clue to what you want from him, if he loves you he will know what to do. I understand that not everyman is romantic and expressive but no human alive is completely devoid of any knowledge of what to do, because real love always talks in some way, but you have to remember that any actions he does make is backed up in his attitude towards you, they musn't contradict otherwise you will never know if it real or not UNDERSTAND!! Good Luck
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reader, Tremor  +, writes (22 July 2008):
 Short of being a mind reader, there's no way of knowing for certain whether a guy loves you. But if he said it, he should mean it, and it should show through his actions.Is he affectionate? Is he considerate? Does he go out of his way for you? Say nice things to you?You also need to realize that there is no way you can MAKE someone love you. It's not something you can force or persuade people into.Just a thought - how long have you two been dating? Perhaps you're coming on a bit strong, and that's why he hesitated.
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reader, 13AF  +, writes (22 July 2008):
You've got to trust him. Trust is probably the number one biggest thing in a relationship. People will betray your trust but you can't go around doubting things your significant other tells you. That's just predicting trouble.
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