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Is my cousin trying to get sexual with me?

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Question - (22 July 2008) 4 Answers - (Newest, 24 July 2008)
A female United States age 26-29, *MLBabyDoll writes:

My cousin is staying with the family and I, but what should I do about his adittude when he is around me? When he pisses off he will think its okay to poke or tickle me i dont like that at all, i mean its nothing sexal but last night he was looking at porn now im really starting to wonder. Plus when im playing game on the xbox360 and i havent really said or done anything wronge he'll turn it off my dad doesnt care if im on, moms at work, one was watching tv so i got on i dont need to ask, he'll come inside and- well yeah. even if im talking to my Boyfriend he does it, and when he does he comes over to me and tickles. Im his COUSIN do you honestly think he is trying to be sexual!? What the hell should i do, i go to pearents he'll bitch that he didnt do anything. he's 15 and i think he's trying to do sumthing to is 13yo cousin(me) anyone willing to help me?

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (24 July 2008):

I doubt he is trying to do anything sexual, per se, but he probably is attracted to you. He's probably just flirting. I wouldn't worry about it. If you don't like the attention, just tell him.

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A female reader, mamasaidknockyouout United States +, writes (23 July 2008):

well my best guy friend alllwaayyssss pokes and tickles me, and he's aware it annoys the hell out of me! lol but he tells me its just funny how I react and its nice to get a smile and laugh out of me. unless he's tickling and poking your tits, vag and ass, I don't think its sexual. and even more so if he starts groping you. porn is porn and I doubt it has relations to use, only because he's a teenage boy! that's what they do.

honestly, I think he's doing it to annoy you and 'play games' with you

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A female reader, Emilysanswers United Kingdom +, writes (23 July 2008):

He's probably just being very annoying as he is a 15 yearold boy.

Next time he does it, slap him and yell "get off me you pervert" loud enough for your dad to hear.

He might get the message that it's not appropriate after that.

Good Luck!! xx

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A female reader, O Connor Ireland +, writes (23 July 2008):

O Connor agony auntits very hard to tell if he is being sexual or not. to be honest i dont think so, but i could be wrong. next time he pokes or tickles you ask him to stop - you dont like it and it makes you uncomfortable. he is not really doing anything inappropriate at the moment, so telling his family would be a bad idea. however, if the behaviour does escalate, then talk to someone. but for the moment i dont think its sexual.

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