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writes: the thought of getting caught really turns me on when were having sex, i know it sounds really strange. when me and my boyfriend are having sex, i prefer to do it like, in his bedroom when his parents are in, or in his car, where its risky, i dont have any idea why?! does anyone know why this may be? does anyone else get this? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 September 2008): It is not strange at all, the way you feel about having sex with the possibility of getting caught. The urgency of getting an orgasm is postponed by the situation of still not being detected. You probably want to unbalance or shock someone, and that's naughty, but in my opinion you are (re-)living a sort of zen-experience(being in the moment)and that's an awesome way to come/go. Have fun, and in case you're being caught please act as being embarrased yourself ; in most cases will settle the situation. Say you're sorry (but you aren't!).
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reader, Aunty_Amber  +, writes (23 July 2008):
 its perfectly normal and iv heard quite healthy (something to do with increasing your heart rate which lowers the risk of heart disease or a heart attack or stroke - my sisters a doctor so i tend to know a lot of random facts).
anyway, it just shows that you have quite an exhibitionist in you - just try to stick with liking the thought of getting caught rather than actually being caught....remember that if you do get caught your parents will not be happy bunnies!!!!!
have fun
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reader, Rhandy  +, writes (23 July 2008):
 yeah, i like it to, but for me its makes me excited especially having sex in here house with his family. it adds me thrill and obsession of sex. i really like it, and i think its normal.
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reader, birdynumnums  +, writes (22 July 2008):
 It definitely increases the "naughty" factor! Just don't take the thrill seeking to far, it could lead to actually being caught and exposed. The THOUGHT of being caught is Titillating, actually BEING caught, not so much!!!
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reader, bubbloo24  +, writes (22 July 2008):
 You ain't the only one hun!!
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reader, duskyrowe +, writes (22 July 2008):
 I used to love outdoor sex when I was a teen, especially in a forest with my then boyfriend. Be careful doing it in the car, otherwise the boys in blue might catch you and arrest you for public indecency.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 July 2008): Yea, quite a lot of people get really turned on at the thought of getting caught 'at it'. It can heighten the whole experience but who knows why?
Certainly, when I was younger, I got caught a couple of times by a passer-by while shagging on the grass in the country on a warm summers afternoon. Man, did it add to the experience!
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reader, lotus mama808  +, writes (22 July 2008):
 As odd as it is, it is also very common. Its a pshycological reaction that happens in the brain when we are doing something we know we shouldnt be doing under certain circumstanses. The exctiement of what we are doing and the rush of knowing you could get caught, combined, somehow make it really fun. Don't feel like you are strange for feeling that way. Guys that are married to ladies who don't like porn tend to watch it even more often because it is now a forbidden thing. A child that is not supposed to have that candy on the table tend to enjoy it more when they eat it anyway when mom isnt watching. It's common:)
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reader, StudentOfLife +, writes (22 July 2008):
 I like that too actually. Funny feeling eh?
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reader, lexilou +, writes (22 July 2008):
 Me and my ex hubbie used to do it if my parents nipped out or we knew they were due back, when we were dating, usually in places like the stairs so we could see them through the glass door if they came back! That was 25 years ago and even now theres an element of excitement if I do it somewhere I could get caught or if Im in a rush and should be somewhere else. Its perfectly normal x
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