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female
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30-35,
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writes:My friend is loving this teacher and i don’t she’s gay but she’s obsessed with her…and the teacher has just left and she’s just depressed and heartbroken..She’s asking me if you love a teacher should you Let Them go???Please post your thoughts..
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 December 2008): i loved a teacher my biology teacher but they have two kids and are married im still getting over the teacher and meh heart is broken severly
(be there for the person through good times and bad)
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reader, thats_not_my_name +, writes (22 July 2008):
 hey i can totally relate to what your friend is going through right now.....i'm 'slightly' obessesed with my physics teacher and i don't have him next year! i'm sooo upset about this and it really hurts...but you've just got to let it go. it's the hardest thing in the world but your friend needs to try and forget about this teacher. encourage her to find people of her own age that she likes...or someone else to develop a crush on! but just be there for her, help her through it.....if she's anything lik=e me she'll bore you to death with talk about her but eventually she will get over it! hope this helped...message me if you need any more advice xxxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 July 2008): Yes definately. Its hard, and the feelings might persist for a while, but i think if you love a person enough and they don't feel the same way or there is definate reason for nothing to happen, then the best thing to do, is let them go.
I had a crush on my teacher years ago and now i can think of my strong feelings, and of him with the fondest of memories. But of course i'd let him go the moment i left school, he had a wife and two kids, he didnt have time to think of anyone but them.
Be there for your friend and comfort her and listen. In the end she will get over it.
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reader, x.xTwIRlyx.x +, writes (22 July 2008):
Yes, you should let them go.
Its the mistake i made in not doing. They have there own life out side of school.
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reader, StudentOfLife  +, writes (22 July 2008):
 I fell in love with a few teachers in my school years, was doing good grades in all of their courses too. Realized later on that the reason, for me to fall in love with them, was because they found a way to put belief in me.
Belief is a very powerful thing that can generate love, that can reveal someone to himself.
The "Wow I didn't know I was good like that" feeling is very powerful.
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