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writes: My guy friend and his girlfriend (my sister) broke up (a month ago) because she cheated on him with his best friend (their not friends anymore). He has been driving me crazy by calling ahead to ask my sister is here. If she is he'll make up reason saying why he can't come by and wants me to come over (he only wants to come over if shes not there). And he doesn't want to go the movies which is where my sis works. I'm his only friend because his so call friends abandon him in the first week And now Im gonna loss it. What can I do to help?
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 July 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWant tell to grow up but dont to hurt his feelings more then nescesy!
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 July 2008): Tell him firmly but gently that you are getting frustrated with his behaviour and that he cant avoid your sister forever.Tell him although you know he is still hurting from what your sister done,he has to get over it before he loses you as a friend too.Also tell him that this could cause a rift between you and your sister and you dont want that.If he still wants to avoid your sister,you should go to his house instead of going to yours.Say you are tired of doing this and he better start acting maturely.He will soon see that if he keeps this up,he could lose you.Make sure you talk to him about his feelings as he must feel quite small and rejected right now.Your the only friend he has a hell stop avoiding your sister if you tell him how it is.
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