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I love her. I don't know how to tell her.

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Question - (22 July 2008) 7 Answers - (Newest, 30 July 2008)
A male Macedonia age 30-35, * LOVE HER writes:

We are just friends but I love her.

She was my best friend but I fall in love first time I saw her.

I don't know how to tell her.

I'm sad and if I don't tell her I'll die :(

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (30 July 2008):

dont say anything !! just stara 2 act in a way that makes her feel that u like her n after u can see in her eyes if she like u!

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A female reader, bubbloo24 Isle of Man +, writes (22 July 2008):

bubbloo24 agony auntI think you should just go and tell her.

You have one life, and you will probably regret it if you don't tell her.

If she's your very best friend and very understanding, it won't affect you both if you tell her how you feel and she doesn't feel the same way.

You never know, she may feel the same way, but the only way you're gonna find out is by talking to her.

Atleast then you'll know what kind of chance you have rather than not knowing.

Take care xx

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (22 July 2008):

the way that i see it is that you have a 50 50 chance. I know you are both friends but if you dnt tell her how you feel about her you will never know where you stand..and it will get harder for you.

in my opinion id say go 4 it..it neva hurt anyone..

goof luck

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A male reader, jakeisrock  United States +, writes (22 July 2008):

instead of tryin to be all cool just be polite

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (22 July 2008):

What harm can come from telling her you love her??

If i were you i'd tell her,& you never know,you may get a good reply back! :)

Good luck

xxxx

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A male reader, Talksense United Kingdom +, writes (22 July 2008):

Talksense agony aunt

Look, i'm not sayin your feelings are not true, but you're so young there is so much in life you have yet to see, just take your time.

If she doesn't feel the same you could ruin your friendship,so you must be careful.

It seems as though you really wanna tell her, so do it but you have to be grown up about it. If she doesn't want to be with you, try and forget about it and move on quickly, you see if you do that you give yourself more chance of probably gettin her in the future as she saw that you were mature about how you dealt with the rejection, women like mature guys, if you get all moody then she will be glad she said no and it will finish your friendship as well.

The thing is women like men to be their 'best friend' as well as their partner so it's important that that you keep the friendship, the better you are of being a real friend the more chance you will have of gettin her and she will respect you for it, but just take your time and wait for the right moment, 'when is the right moment i hear you ask' your heart will tell you.

Good luck Kid

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A male reader, coolicoolicool Canada +, writes (22 July 2008):

coolicoolicool agony auntdude, the exact same thing is happening to me right now, just with an ex. id just straight up tell her

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